If you’ve ever found yourself wondering why you’re still single after 50, you’re not alone. I recently joined Mark Patrick and Kelli Calabrese on their Fit Over 50 Life podcast to talk about something that’s been close to my heart for years: Helping people find love again after heartbreak, divorce, or loss.
As a relationship coach, I’ve seen countless men and women get stuck believing their best days are behind them or that dating apps are to blame for their lack of success. But here’s the truth: The apps aren’t the problem. The real work begins inside; in your mindset, your heart, and the stories you tell yourself about love.
What We Talked About
During the episode, I shared how important it is to heal from past wounds before you reenter the dating world. If you don’t address those hurts, they’ll quietly sabotage every new connection you try to build. We discussed how to:
- Redefine what love looks like in this new season of life.
- Recognize the patterns keeping you single.
- Build confidence again without the fear of rejection.
- Spot red flags early and stop settling for “good enough.”
I also talked about how perfectionism, comparison, and fear often keep us from being open to love. Once you understand those blocks, you can finally step into dating with clarity, peace, and joy.
Why This Matters
As a relationship coach, I know that healing doesn’t happen in isolation. You don’t have to do this alone. Having someone walk beside you, someone who can help you see your blind spots and call you higher, can completely change your story. That’s why I do what I do.
I want you to know that love isn’t reserved for the young. Love is for anyone willing to do the work, let go of the past, and open their heart again.
If you’re ready to believe that your best love story could still be ahead of you, I encourage you to take the next step.
🎥 Watch the video now to hear the full conversation and the practical steps I share for finding love again.
And when you’re ready to take action in your own life, don’t wait another day, join my Last Year Single program where we can help you finally break through the barriers keeping you from the love you deserve.